For many people, the emotional impact of multiple sclerosis is the most challenging aspect of the disease. A cascade of feelings can come and go, depending on whether or not you are having symptoms, how much your disease has progressed, and the up and down nature of day-to-day life apart from multiple sclerosis. Over time, chances are you may experience a wide range of negative emotions that can feel overwhelming: anger at the disease; anxiety about the future; guilt when you let others help; sadness and grief at the loss of certain abilities. All of these emotions are perfectly normal, but none of them is pleasant. The good news is that help is available. Before we discuss ways to get help, let's look at some of the most common emotional challenges for people with multiple sclerosis.
Depression and Multiple Sclerosis
Clinical depression is more common in people with multiple sclerosis than in
the general population. Researchers are not sure if this higher rate of
depression is due primarily to an emotional response to having the disease or
is related to the physiology of the disease. Either way, depression should be
taken very seriously. If you are feeling depressed, you should seek treatment
as soon as possible.
Am I depressed?
Clinical depression is more than a passing sadness or a day or two of feeling
down. The American Psychiatric Association has outlined the hallmarks of
depression, which are listed below. If you experience any of these symptoms,
you should talk to your healthcare provider or a counselor.
While fatigue or excessive tiredness is also a symptom of depression, many people with multiple sclerosis experience fatigue that is unrelated to depression.
Anxiety and Stress
The unpredictability of multiple sclerosis can lead to excessive worry, fear
and anxiety that can be debilitating. You may find yourself worrying constantly
about when your next flare-up will come, even when you're feeling good, or you
may spend a lot of time contemplating future disability that may never happen.
The length of time it can take to get a multiple sclerosis diagnosis is often
itself a source of anxiety and fear.
A certain amount of worry is understandable when you have a chronic condition that is unpredictable. However, when fear, worry and stress become so great they prevent you from doing things you enjoy, keep you from getting a good night's sleep, or interfere with your relationships with others, it's time to get help.
Help is available
If you are experiencing depression, anxiety, stress or other emotional
difficulties, you should tell a friend or family member right away and tell
your healthcare provider as soon as possible. Your healthcare
provider will be able to refer you to a counselor, social worker or
therapist who can help you find the appropriate way to address your needs.
Several different approaches to addressing the emotional challenges of multiple
sclerosis are described below. Don't hesitate to try several, until you find
the one that works best for you.
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